A Primer on Ayurveda for the Childbearing Years
Part 3: Ayurveda
for Pregnancy & Childbirth
By Terra Rafael
(formerly Terra Palmarini
Richardson), Midwife &
Healer
Pregnancy is
a very special season in the life of a woman. Tremendous changes
happen within -- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
There is a tendency in our culture for women to ignore their pregnancy
( as they try to ignore their menstrual/fertility cycles) and act
as though there is nothing different about them except that there's
a baby growing inside. Ayurvedic teachings promote a proper attitude
of worship towards all pregnant women. They are fulfilling the very
important full time role of bringing new life into the world. Their
experiences in pregnancy directly feed into the sensory & mental
organs of the developing child-so the more beautiful, loving, and
uplifting the mother's experience, the healthier the child will
tend to perceive and think about the world throughout his or her
life. Wise women give themselves all the space & time possible
to turn inward during their pregnancies, to listen to their bodies
& their intuitions, and to tune in to the beneficent forces
available to them in the physical & spiritual worlds. In this
way they give birth with grace and their children are blessed with
the best possible start in the world.
Energetically,
pregnancy is full of change, creativity,& expansion, so Vata
is normally emphasized. Metabolism & warmth in the body is
increased so Pitta is normally increased. And the bulk of the body
is increased so Kapha is also normally increased. In each woman
these changes are interplaying with her constitution, the baby's
constitution, and her environmental influences. The intricacy of
working with pregnant women is further increased by the need to
avoid any therapies and herbs which may disturb the uterus and the
apana prana or downward energy. The apana prana is key to maintaining
the pregnancy as well as birthing the baby at the time of labor.
This emphasizes the utility of taking care of imbalanced conditions
before pregnancy whenever possible, since it is generally more complex
to treat women during pregnancy. Prevention is emphasized for self
care, with treatment generally reserved to experienced Ayurvedic
practitioners.
General Recommendations
for Pregnancy Self-Care
Eat and follow
lifestyle according to current Ayurvedic condition rather than strictly
by constitution. This is because the baby's needs & desires
start being felt more by the mother in her food preferences and
energetics especially after the 5th month - satisfy cravings while
maintaining discrimination; eat fresh food, avoiding processed or
leftover food, refined sugars, very spicy foods, food straight from
the refrigerator or freezer, and chemical additives in foods
Nutritional needs
are increased during pregnancy - quantity as well as quality - more
calories, calcium, protein, & iron are noteworthy. Nourishing
herbal infusions can help fulfill these needs - for Pitta &
Kapha: Red Raspberry &/or Nettles; for Vata : Oatstraw . The
pregnant woman can drink up to a quart daily suitable for her type,
1-2 cups of other infusions. To make an infusion : put a big handful
of herbs in quart jar, fill with boiling hot water, & let it
sit 4-6 hours. Strain & refrigerate what you don't drink immediately.
You can rewarm it as needed. Organic herbs are always the best
choice. (Avoid herbs unsafe for pregnancy!)
Nutritional
ayurvedic herbs & preparations are also good: ghee; chyvan
prash VK- P+ for cold season; and shakti prana VPK- for hot season
or if high P.
Eating is only
the first step. Digesting is equally important. Rules for good
digestion are: Eat only when your previous meal has been digested.
Avoid foods you know you have difficulty digesting. Do not drink
lots of liquids with your meal, especially cold drinks. Cooked,
moist soupy & warm foods are generally easier to digest than
raw. Adding digestive herbs to food may help digestion.
Signs of poor digestion = gas, belching, stomach & intestinal
discomforts.
Ayurvedic
digestive herbs safe for pregnancy include - mints; pippili, tarragon;
cardamom; jasmine; cumin; cinnamon; basil. Other digestive helps
- papaya (be aware that digestive enzymes may be Pitta provoking
on a long term basis). A substitute for papaya can be ½ tsp grated
fresh ginger with a squeeze of lemon (or lime if you are Pitta)
with a pinch of salt taken 10-20 min before meal time. This will
stimulate one's own digestive enzymes into action, rather than adding
others artificially. To help with absorption drink takram after
meals. It is made by churning 2 tablespoons of unsweetened natural
cows yogurt with 1 cup of water adding a pinch of salt & two
pinches of cumin.
Happiness &
the spiritual state of love are true nourishment for mother &
the baby . Ways to increase these elements of your life are: Worship,
chant & meditate, pray & contemplate the lives of great
saints & other great beings; be with people who uplift you;
avoid disturbing TV or violent movies; have as beautiful & peaceful
an environment as possible; eat only fresh whole foods.
The mate is an
important part of the process - his time, energy, & nourishing
of the mother is important to the development of the baby. Ayurveda
recognizes that marital problems during pregnancy can even physically
effect the baby - so nurture the parents relationship nurtures the
baby & strengthens the safe haven it will be born into.
Ayurvedic fetal
development teachings tell us that the constitution of the baby
is formed by the genetic makeup of mother & father; the diet
& emotions of the mother during pregnancy; environmental influences;
and the samskaras or spiritual patterns that the soul brings in
with it from previous incarnations. Ayurveda teaches that the baby
is physically conscious of his or her development, which is being
confirmed today by the science of perinatal psychology.
One
important teaching is that what the mother takes in through HER
sense organs goes into the development of the baby's sense organs.
This further emphasizes the importance of what kind of environment
the woman is in during pregnancy. There were even traditional ceremonies
for different stages of pregnancy to "feed" the specific senses.
Today we can emphasize as possible seeing beautiful & loving
things, listening to loving & melodious sounds, touching pleasing
things & being touched in loving ways, tasting wholesome tastes,
and smelling fragrant odors during pregnancy.
During
the first 2 months only astral projection connects the baby to its
current body. The 4th month is VERY CRITICAL- the heart starts to
develop as the seat of consciousness. This leads to the baby's
desires starting to express themselves through the mother's desires.
If mother has a hard time with husband during this month, the baby's
heart may develop defects. After this time the mental body becomes
connected to the physical body.
In
the 8th month- ojas (vital fluid) moves from mother to the baby
: eat more ojas producing foods and stay at home & rest at this
time to ensure good vitality for both mother & baby. Avoid
wasting energy needlessly - spend more time doing much less, letting
the energy go inward. Be in nature; eat ghee, milk, dates, apricots,
sesame seeds, Ayurvedic tonics : ashwagunda or shatavari; chant
OM; be in touch with God/dess as you know Her or Him; meditate.
What to avoid for guarding ojas: anger, worry, overwork, drugs
or stimulants, hunger, sorrow, excessive sex, and devitalized food.
Rubbing warm
sesame oil on the soles of the feet to helps balance Vata and also
stimulates the energy points of the feet, keeping energy flowing
throughout the body. A great way to unwind & to spend quiet
time together is for mates to regularly give evening foot massages
to each other. (sesame oil may be too "hot" for Pittas
- almond oil might be better for them)
Sleeping in the
day is not generally recommended as it can cause imbalances, especially
for Kapha people. Resting is beneficial at the right times &
in the right amounts for personal needs.
Daily walks or
swims are appropriate exercise, as well as yoga asanas indicated
for pregnancy. Gentle stretching of the pelvis helps flexibility
during labor. I recommend the book Active Birth by Janet
Balaskas for exercises. Avoid too vigorous exercise, & exercise
where injury is more likely, such as skiing or horseback riding.
Jarring exercises can disturb the apana vayu. Never exercise to
full capacity! This depletes ojas/ immune & vital force, so
key to building the baby's future health as well as the mother's.
Taking warm baths
relaxes muscles when feeling tense. Tension inhibits circulation,
thus movement of both nutrition & energy. It keeps toxins locked
into places rather than moving them out. Full body massage of a
proper nature is very healthy, allowing the woman to integrate her
body changes, while relaxing her and benefiting her physiology.
Aromatherapy can be helpful also as part of tension relief-- be
sure to use only oils indicated safe for pregnancy!!! (Essential
Oils Generally Considered Safe in Pregnancy = Tangerine; Mandarin;
Grapefruit; Geranium; Roman Chamomile, Rose Bulgar; Rose Maroc;
Jasmine; Ylang-ylang; Lavendar)
These exercises
tones & strengthen the muscles of the pelvic floor - which during
pregnancy must support the weight of the baby, as well as the uterus
& bladder. They also help regulate the apana. These exercises
are good for pelvic health throughout the life cycle, increasing
strength, circulation & health of tissues for greater orgasms
as well as continued health through the elder years.
Ashwini
mudra: This energy exercise helps balance Vata & the apana prana
energy, especially useful in pregnancy. Directions - in a quiet
place, eyes closed - Inhale completely & hold the breath. Contract
& release the anal sphincter rapidly & repeatedly. Hold
the breath only so long as the following exhalation can be slow
& controlled. Begin with three rounds of about 10 pulls each.
Don't bear down when holding the breath, which could strain ligaments
& put downward pressure on the uterus. Don't do the breath
part in a fragile pregnancy, just contract & release. Repeat
daily.
Pelvic
floor exercises (Kegels): Once you know them practice, anywhere,
anytime - even the grocery line!!! Do each 200x/day, slowly or
quickly, or elevator kegels, which tighten upward in levels.
Bladder-strengthening exercise- Practice tightening & releasing
the muscles that control urine flow from the bladder. Do this first
when peeing to find the muscles, then practice it other times.
Vaginal exercise- Practice tightening &
releasing the muscles of the vagina around a finger or a penis to
find it.
Avoid overly
vigorous sex, especially at the usual times when menses would be
expected or if there are any signs that the pregnancy is fragile
(spotting or cramping or lots of low pressure). Sexual excesses
may also use up ojas or cause doshic imbalances, especially of apana
prana which can cause many different problems of pregnancy &
birth. Women are more susceptible to infections at this time too.
Ayurveda traditionally encourages celibacy during pregnancy. Doing
yoga asanas, pranayama & meditation are ways to naturally control
sexual desires through spiritual practice. The most important factors
if continuing an active sexual life is to do so in a loving context
& with awareness of what feels comfortable & right to the
woman.
Beginning the
8th month begin to apply licorice ghee to vagina. Perineal massage
4-5x week will make the tissues healthy & supple, allowing them
to stretch readily for the birthing of the baby. It also helps
women get used to the unusual sensation of their vagina stretching
to birth a baby so that they can relax at that point & be less
likely to tear or to slow down the pushing stage to keep from being
overwhelmed with sensations or emotions. It usually works best
for the mate to do it for the woman, but if that's not possible
she can try stretch herself (on the toilet or lying on your side
may work easier in this case). Directions: Wash hands, then use
the licorice ghee as lubricant insert one or two fingers along the
bottom of the vagina. After a couple of inches there is a "drop-off"
where the inner edge of the muscles lie. Massage the whole bottom
half of this vaginal sling gently yet firmly enough to create a
definite stretching, burning sensation. Along with the massage,
the woman should practice relaxing these muscles, while they are
being stretched to their limit. Over a week or two there often
is a noticeable change in stretchability. Continue pushing the
limit of stretching & relaxing until the birth.
Traditionally,
in the last month of pregnancy the woman may be given small, gentle
therapeutic oil enemas to be sure that the apana prana is balanced
for the work of labor. After this process she eats a predominantly
Vata reducing diet, adjusted to her needs & the season. The
emphasis is on preventing an imbalance of the apana prana which
can lead to malposition or uterine malfunction during labor. At
least avoid holding back urine, passing gas, or bowel movements,
getting chilled, or getting jarred to support the proper movement
of the apana.
The proper caregiver
is important during pregnancy, birth & postpartum. This person
should be both technically knowledgeable & open-hearted. The
woman must feel comfortable with this person -- they will share
the intimate moments of giving birth and be one of the first people
the baby will relate to. If the birthing woman doesn't feel relaxed,
up-lifted & trusting of this person it can impede the labor
process, possibly leading to complications. Wise women pick someone
familiar with many forms of healing which can be used before resorting
to drugs & surgery as solutions. Complete pregnancy care includes
nutritional counseling and time to get questions answered &
concerns addressed.
Labor &
Birthing Care with Ayurveda
Traditionally,
most births were taken care of by the midwives rather than the Ayurvedic
physicians. Because of this, many of the teachings about labor
& birth are not written down in the texts (which were written
by men) but passed on orally from midwife to apprentice. The physicians
only dealt with the most complicated situations.
Ancient texts
do talk about having special spaces for giving birth which would
take into account the spiritual as well as practical needs. When
the woman is showing signs of beginning labor she would enter the
birth space with special blessings & ceremony, to mark the significance
of this time. She would be accompanied by birth attendants that
were calm & supportive, inspiring the confidence of the birthing
woman.
To awaken the
apana prana for early labor an enema of dashamula tea can be used.
To help keep balance of the Vata energy which is very high at this
time, the woman must not become chilled. Massaging her with warm
oil & giving her a warm bath, as well as feeding her broths
& soups, avoiding icy cold drinks or foods can be useful for
maintaining balance of Vata & apana prana.
Marma points
(Ayurvedic energy points) can be massaged with appropriate essential
oils to encourage labor and to soothe pain. (Remember that Vata
is involved wherever there is pain-keeping Vata controlled helps
control pain also.)The use of walking and massaging the pelvic area
with warm sesame or castor oil will also help the baby move down
in labor. All of these Vata/ apana soothing measures are also used
to help when there is some malposition of the baby so that it can
move more easily through the birth canal.
When the birth
of the baby is approaching, licorice ghee is used again for perineal
massage. After the climax of giving birth, the woman is kept comfortable
& warm and fed Vata reducing foods such a stews and soups.
The placenta is allowed to deliver most naturally and the cord of
to the baby is not cut until ALL pulsation has stopped. This allows
the transfer of ojas to the baby to be complete, giving it good
vital force & immunity. It can take 1 -2 hours for pulsation
of the cord to stop if you feel right next to the baby's tummy on
the cord. Measure 8 fingers away from the baby's belly to find
where to cut. Traditionally a special knife was used to cut the
cord during a ceremony, again marking the ritual significance of
the baby being severed from the mother. Antiseptic herbs or oils
were used to keep the cord area from infection until healed.
The baby is kept
cozy and warm sesame oil is massaged onto the fontanelles to protect
it from being overstimulated. A little hat, especially if made of
silk, can help as well . Traditionally babies were stimulated
to spit up to clear their stomach of anything swallowed during labor.
They wer given special experiences to tune them into their Vedic
culture. One was feeding baby honey, ghee & specially prepared
edible gold to give the baby a type of Ayurvedic immunization to
the local pollens & dairy as well as increased vitality &
immunity with the gold. Other properties are also given by the
substances - honey clears Kapha which is predominant in children;
ghee increases the healthy fat in the brain to increase intellect,
as well as nourishing nerve & marrow tissues; and gold signifies
wealth. A gold spoon can be used instead of gold preparation, if
unavailable.
The baby is massage
with pure oil and bathed in mild herbal bath. Baby receives breast
milk as the best food. Before milk comes in babies are often traditionally
fed ghee & honey, in the amount of a baby handful, just 2-3
times a day. Herbs can be used to enhance breast milk-Shatavari,
Vidari, Ajwain. (Ayurvedic physicians believe that it isn't honey
that is a problem for babies-it's the processing of the honey that
creates problems. One must get raw, unfiltered honey, not commercially
processed. The teaching of ayurveda is that honey becomes mildly
toxic when heated, which happens in most commercial processing.)
In this way the
baby & mother have gone through the transitional time of pregnancy
& childbirth with the nurturance & help of ayurveda. You'll
learn more about Ayurvedic Postpartum Care in the next installment
of this series.
Terra Richardson
practiced homebirth midwifery 13 years in Boulder, CO before retiring
to focus on Wise Womanhood, offering midwifery training classes
and holistic healing practice using ayurveda, flower essences, &
Reiki energy healing. She coauthored Pregnant Feelings with
Rahima Baldwin Dancy and wrote soon to be published, Giving Birth
to Ourselves-Contemplations for Midwives & Other Birth Companions.
You can learn more about her classes & practice at http://wisewomanhood.bigstep.com
or by calling 720.628.5015.
Ayurvedic Helps
for Discomforts of Pregnancy
morning sickness - shatavari: roast in an iron pan ghee w/ cardamom
& date sugar
to increase digestion - pippili w/ghee or milk
anemia - punanarva mandura tablets, brahmi ghee
constipation - 1 cup hot spiced cows milk w/ 1 tsp ghee before bed
(use spices according to your doshas) OR a little amalaki
is OK , esp. if high Pitta or Vata & Pitta provoked.
hyperacidity w/ coated tongue - figs or small pinch amalaki
heartburn , allergies - coriander, shatavari, pinch of amalaki
Ayurvedic tonics - chyvan prash (cold season) or shakti prana (hot
season or P+), 1 tsp daily on empty stomach, 15 min later 1
cup warm milk (if not lactose intolerant)
For more on the
discomforts of pregnancy - The Wisewoman Herbal for the Childbearing
Year by Susun Weed for western herbal helps, along with the
Yoga of Herbs by Lad & Frawley to check them according to
dosha.
Commonly
used Ayurvedic Herbs for pregnancy & labor
Amalaki
(amla) tonic, rejuvenative, alterative (use only pinch in pregnancy)
PV-K+
Ashoka
- prevent miscarriage, gyn problems, antitoxic (constipates) P-VK+
Ashwagunda
- tonic, rejuvenative, aphrodisiac, nervine VK-P+
Bala
- nutritive, rejuvenative - easier to digest
Bamboo
manna or Vamsa rochana - for too much dryness, emaciation, bleeding
PV-K+
Brahmi
- rejuvenative, blood purifier, fortifies immune system, good for
kidneys VP-
Cardamon
- digestant
Castor
oil- externally on hips for apana prana in labor or internally to
purge to begin labor
Cumin/coriander/fennel
tea- digestant (fennel not for early or fragile pregnancy)
Ghee
- carrier substance for herbs, tonic to pitta, increases agni &
ojas V-PK neutral don't mix in
equal proportions with honey; not for high toxins, diarrhea, or
parasites
Guduchi
-diuretic, liver tonic & stimulant P-
Licorice
ghee - for perineal massage, also-cervical dysplasia (topical)
Lotus
- nurturing tonic, aphrodisiac, astringent, nervine PV-K+
Pippili
- stimulant (use only small amt in pregnancy), expectorant, aphrodisiac
VK-P+
Punanarva
-diuretic, diaphoretic, laxative, rejuvenative PK-V+
Shatavari
- nutritive tonic, demulcent, emmenagogue, rejuvenative, build milk
PV-K+
Vidari
- nutritive tonic, demulcent, emmenagogue, rejuvenative PV-K+
AYURVEDIC
HERBS TO AVOID IN PREGNANCY
When in doubt
- don't take it. Check with an experienced herbalist or ayurvedic
practitioner whenever possible before using any herbs in pregnancy,
even if they seem to be totally unrelated to your uterus. Anything
in excess should be avoided. Anything that imbalances your doshas
should be avoided. Anything that stimulates menses (emmenagogues)
or uterine contractions (oxytocics) should be avoided. Anything
that is toxic should be avoided. Strongly hormonal herbs may throw
off a normal balance - don't take them except in specially indicated
situations. Antihistamines, laxatives & diuretics may also
be dangerous during pregnancy.
If your pregnancy
is in the first trimester or has shown any signs of fragility at
any time in the pregnancy be more cautious = Fragile/Early (F/E).
Some herbs may be ok if the pregnancy is firmly established -- that's
why you may find different lists which include different herbs.
Aloe
Berberis f/e
or V
Bitter-scraping
herbs
Dill F/E
Fennel F/E
Fenugreek
Ginger (a little
fresh OK)
Haritaki
Hing (a little
in food OK)
Honey
Jatamansi
Licorice rt
Mahasudarshan
Neem
Nutmeg
Trikatu
Triphala F/E
Triphala Guggulu
Tumeric
Vacha
Yogaraj guggulu
To order Ayurvedic
herbs & products: The Ayurvedic Institute : 1- 505-291-9698
Banyan Trading Company: 1-800-953-6424
A Primer on
Ayurveda for the Childbearing Years
Part 4: Ayurveda
for Postpartum Self Care
By Terra Richardson,
Midwife & Ayurvedic Practitioner
The postpartum
is a very tender period of time for mother and baby. Ayurveda's
recommendations can protect them from taking on imbalance &
stress during this sensitive time. During pregnancy the woman is
to be worshipped as a Creatrix; postpartum this level of devotion
and caring is twice as necessary, for it includes both Mother &
Child.
Ayurvedic teachings
tell us that postpartum is one of the special times in a woman's
life that her whole physiology is changing quickly and can be set
to actually rejuvenate the mother. The women I know who have followed
these teachings postpartum have had better postpartum experiences
and continued to feel better as their life went on. In contrast,
most women in our culture try to get back to "normal" life as quickly
as possible-it's almost as if it is a sign of strength to act as
though postpartum isn't a special time. This is dangerous for the
future health of the mother-if she overdoes it and is careless in
the weeks following the birth she can be setting up imbalances that
can plague her for the rest of her life.
One example
of what can happen was June, an athletic & healthy Pitta woman,
who felt great right after her birth - and proceeded to go on long,
strenuous hikes just 2 weeks after giving birth. In the year following
the birth June found herself getting weaker instead of stronger
and having frequent bouts of illness - something which hadn't happened
for her before. Only though strong attention to her imbalances
that stemmed from postpartum could she rebuild her immune system
and strength to withstand the stresses of motherhood.
With postpartum
care & attention the picture can look much healthier. Stacey,
a Vata woman, had already given birth once before. During that
postpartum she developed a sleeping problem (Vata type- waking at
about 3 am) that stuck with her for years. When she began using
Ayurveda she finally cleared up the problem. Then she became pregnant
again and was worried she may fall back into the old pattern. However,
this time she followed the Ayurvedic postpartum recommendations
and she ended up feeling great after her postpartum, with no sleep
disorders.
The postpartum
period is one generally of great change, The changeable sleep schedule,
the loss of fluids common to postpartum, changing hormonal balance,
the loss of weight, and the extra space left in the abdomen after
childbirth means Vata is there for the mother. Women who went through
a cesarean section are even more Vata due to the opening up of their
abdomen & uterus, letting air & space into their most inner
body. The mothering of a newborn with it's irregular and changeable
schedule also contributes greatly to Vata dosha easily going out
of balance. Vata reducing measures are necessary to prevent Vata
symptoms or the possibility of Vata moving any excess Pitta or Kapha
in the body to form symptoms of those doshas.
For the baby,
leaving the contained and watery womb to go into the spacious, airy,
stimulating, and relatively dry world also means a big increase
in Vata dosha. The baby is just unfolding into this world, learning
to adapt and to act in a dance with life. Introduction of harsh
stimuli & separation from the mother during this time are insults
to the tender nervous system of the newborn. So during this time
Vata reduction is the basic care plan to help both mother &
baby.
As mentioned
in Part 1 of this series, Vata is made up of ether (space) and air.
It has the qualities of: dry, cold, light, changeable, mobile ,
and rough. It's "home base" in the body is the abdominal/pelvic
area - so key in childbearing. When it is balanced we express it
through living in a flowing, flexible, enthusiastic, and creative
way. Some of the symptoms of imbalance are constipation, shakiness,
gas, cramps, sleep disturbance and fatigue. Emotional symptoms of
Vata imbalance are feelings of being overwhelmed, fearful, and/or
distracted. It is also related to grief.
Vata reducing
measures are counter to the qualities of Vata. We use moisture
and oiliness, warmth, heaviness, routine, stillness & quiet,
and smooth, flowing lifestyle.
Many of these
Ayurvedic postpartum teachings were first promoted in our country
through the Mother Baby Program of Maharishi Mahesh Yogi and further
developed by Martha Oakes, Diplomate Ayurvedic Postpartum Practitioner,
Experienced Ayurvedic Postpartum Doula Trainer. If you would like
to learn more about training or consult with her, you can reach
her at ww.sacredwindow.com or 866.224.0609. She also has a self-published
book available expanding on the information in this article, recommended
if you want to try it or help others with it.
First of all
we must "Mother the Mother", While the new mom is mothering
the baby, she too must receive care. In this way both baby &
mother are best nurtured. She should not be entertaining visitors,
cleaning house, doing laundry, or cooking meals. To the best of
their ability, families must plan together ahead of time and in
a thorough manner, how to have the mom taken care of for 4-6 weeks
postpartum. Most people may not be able to provide care for a full
six weeks - at least 2 is a minimum to prevent the mom from doing
too much. In our midwifery practice we usually said 2 weeks minimum
with an extra week for each other child in the household.
One danger is
that the partner will try to take up all the slack, becoming exhausted
too. This can be emotionally as well as physically trying. It
is important to call on the community to support the family at this
time. Churches, coworkers, friendship circles and support groups
are often good places to find this help. If a woman doesn't have
this kind of community when she becomes pregnant it is most important
to start developing it-it will serve her throughout parenthood.
The pregnant
women can ask a girlfriend to coordinate volunteers. They would
use a sign-up sheet at the baby shower or blessing way and then
the friend would call people after the birth to confirm when they
would come by to clean, drop off food, or do some laundry. Specific
personal food needs & guidelines should be in writing &
given to everyone providing food. Enough food could be supplied
for both supper and lunch.
Another time
honored technique for mothering the mother is to have family or
friends come & stay for some time postpartum. It's imperative
that the everyone feels absolutely comfortable about the person
staying there-or the stress will offset the help provided! Plenty
of communication about boundaries needs to be made before, during
& after the visit to keep things clear and easy.
Oiliness
or unctuousness is needed to offset the dryness and roughness of
Vata. This is provided postpartum through daily oil massage with
warm sesame oil, eating food with plenty of ghee and olive oil,
and sesame oil enemas (when working with a trained practitioner).
The daily oil
massage is best done by someone trained in Ayurvedic postpartum
massage-but these practitioners are still few & far between.
The technique used by these women are specially suited to the Vata
needs of the women & their changing bodies. However, any trained
massage therapist could give a slow, gentle, firm, steady, integrative,
repetitive massage with warm sesame oil to good effect. Plenty
of oil to the head is important for calming the nervous system.
It's good to have someone there to help with the baby during the
massage time and try to schedule so feeding happens just beforehand
so mom can relax as deeply as possible - and whoever massages should
be ready for the needs of the baby to nurse on the massage table.
The massage can start in the first days for a vaginal birth, after
one week for someone who had a cesarean.
Many people can't
afford daily massage by someone for 2-3 weeks, so doing self massage
or having a friend or partner do the massage for at least some of
the time is another viable option. Whoever does the massaging should
remember the principles to balance Vata through massage- slow, gentle,
firm, steady, integrative, repetitive massage with 4 - 8 oz of warm
sesame oil. Besides calming Vata, daily massage helps the body reintegrate
into its non-pregnant state. It keeps circulation going-very important
for someone not moving around a lot during the recovery period.
This helps prevent of the possibility of blood clots forming from
blood stagnation. Massage also stimulates all the organs and energy
points of the body to promote general health and emotional well
being.
Warmth
must be provided by keeping the room temperature comfortably warm.
During and after the massage a hot water bottle can be applied to
the abdomen to bring warmth deep into the Vata part of the body.
Warm baths after the daily oil massage will also keep the cold of
Vata from lodging in the body. This is often a favorite part of
the postpartum treatment. Cold drafts should be avoided at all times.
Rest may
seem illusive for a postpartum mom at times between baby care &
self care. But rest she must-especially when the baby sleeps. Helpers
are what can allow this to happen. If the house is a mess or other
household tasks are not covered most people find it hard to rest.
This is one time Ayurveda allows sleeping in the day, since the
mom is recovering from childbirth and also having sleep interrupted
by the baby nursing. A nap is recommended after her daily oil massage
& hot bath. Sometimes soothing music can help to calm and allow
rest-pick out tranquil music to use when the energy starts getting
too hectic.
Many women are
anxious to resume their former shape and want to exercise as soon
as possible. Women should know that it is common for some to not
get back to their pre-pregnancy weight for 6 months. Some women
don't lose that last extra weight until they end breastfeeding and
their hormones shift again. Exercise programs should not begin
in earnest until after the first month and the lochia flow has ended.
Doing some gentle stretches and brief walks outside later in the
postpartum period will refresh and feel good without straining and
using energy that would better go to the transitioning body in other
ways.
Containment
of the uterus by wrapping the abdomen after the massage & bath
will keep Vata from staying in the space left by the baby leaving.
This is a common practice in traditional cultures which proves helpful
today as well. If the uterus is allowed to flop around freely while
the ligaments are still loose it is more likely it will assume a
position which will inhibit circulation , as well as the outflow
of the lochia, causing stagnation that can lead to later problems.
Quiet and
seclusion are other forms of containment and important to avoid
over stimulation for both mom and baby. Both are wide open and
very sensitive. It's not the time for lots of out of town visitors
or to have large parties of people. One case involved a baby born
only 3 days earlier being brought to church and passed from person
to person. Everyone was very excited & loving-but it was too
much and the baby ended up getting sick. I cringe when I see obviously
newborn babies at the supermarket.
The mom's nervous
system is also reworking itself with the new levels of hormones
and like the other times of hormonal change-adolescence & menopause-reducing
stimulation allows for a smoother transition.
We put a sign
on the door of families of newborns with a birth announcement and
a "We Mother the Mother" statement requesting people who visit to
stay only 15 minutes, and to lend a quick hand to do dishes, vacuum,
or take a load of laundry to do. We educate the women about the
importance of limiting visitors and have them warn people ahead
of the birth. After the first few weeks a celebration can include
everyone!
Routine &
Simplicity are other ways to calm Vata. When our body recognizes
a rhythm happening in eating it digests better; in resting it rests
better. Again, preparation ahead of birth time makes it possible
to foster simplicity by being familiar with the self care routine,
having meals preplanned and supported, and household needs covered.
Wholeness
includes eating whole foods prepared to calm Vata, yet modified
for the specific needs of postpartum women. Martha Oakes presents
a dietary plan to support postpartum rejuvenation. It includes
all the tastes in proportions most healthy for postpartum women,
avoiding the extremes. It favors foods that offer clear, life giving
energy, avoiding those that stress the body or add the energy of
decay (such as fermented & aged foods).
Vata Diet Modified
for Postpartum Mothers-by Martha Oakes
Food Qualities:
Favor these: Reduce or avoid
these:
(These qualities
calm Vata and should be emphasized.)
Sweet Basmati Rice, Unleavened wheat
Meats, esp. red, candy, ice cream
Pasta after 2 weeks, Tapioca (no eggs) Easy on white sugar,
breads,
Natural cane sugar, honey, sweet fruit, hard to digest
sweets
Yams, carrots, beets, poultry/fish after
4 weeks, cottage cheese, ricotta, tofu,
milk
Salty Sea & rock salt, seaweeds (cooked)
Chips, soy sauce
Braggs Amino Acids, kelp
Sour Fresh lemon or lime juice, tamarind,
Fermented cheeses, miso, vinegar,
Sweet oranges, yogurt or buttermilk
yogurt, sour cream, wines,
Lassi (mix them with ½ water) grapefruit
Oily Milk, butter, ghee, ricotta cheese,
Most cheeses, fried foods, nuts
Olive oil, sesame oil (esp. roasted)
Warm Warm or hot temperature foods & drinks
Heavy Essene breads, chapatis, tofu, avocado,
Aged cheeses, meats, nuts, eggs,
Some nuts soaked 24-48 hours, nut leavened wheat items,
yogurt
Butters when thinned
White meat soups after 4 weeks
Food Qualities:
Favor these: Reduce or avoid
these:
(These qualities
increase Vata and should be less dominant in the diet.)
Pungent Cumin, Caraway, Ginger, Black pepper
Garlic, Onion, radish, chilies,
Cinnamon, Cardamom, Black mustard, sage, peppers, thyme,
oregano,
Caraway, clove, basil rosemary
Vata Diet Modified
for Postpartum Mothers-by Martha Oakes--continued
Bitter Turmeric, fenugreek, spinach,
Coffee, chocolate, goldenseal,
Licorice, chrysanthemum, Echinacea, dandelion, green
leaf veggies,
Aloe vera juice, peeled eggplant, rhubarb,
yarrow
Grapefruit seed extract
Astringent Split hulled or soaked 24 hr mung beans
legumes in general, rhubarb,
Spinach, nutmeg, cinnamon, turmeric dry wine, pomegranate,
cranberry,
Raspberry and hibiscus leaf (for Kaphas) green apple
Dry Barley, cooked or soaked dried fruit,
corn, potatoes, beans, crackers
Dried fruit if unsoaked or cooked
Cold Cool temp drinks or fruit in summer
Cold foods & drinks, ice cream,
Milk and foods right out of the
Refrigerator
Light Spinach, sweet apples, barley
Corn, crackers, salads, apples
Another aspect
of wholeness is cultivation of the baby and mother bonding, tied
closely to breastfeeding. Breastfeeding is a given in ayurveda.
If a mother is imbalanced it can not only effect her milk production-it
can also pass on the imbalance in her milk to the baby.
Infant massage,
which can be used to encourage father and baby bonding, is another
aspect of the wholeness for the baby and family. Massage is practiced
universally in India and it starts as soon as the umbilical cord
is healed. Then daily oil massages are given to babies before their
warm bath. Randomized, controlled studies on both preterm and healthy
full term infants show that massaging daily with sesame oil was
most effective in promoting growth and length of time babies slept
after the massage.
At the same time
Vata needs attention a postpartum woman's digestion is very
often disturbed. One way to look at it is that giving birth can
use every bit of energy in the body, depleting the digestive fire.
It must be rekindled in the postpartum so that the food she eats
is well digested to serve in making balanced milk for the baby and
for her own recovery & rejuvenation. Digestive fire kindling
guidelines are followed as closely as possible and digestive teas
& herbs used to get things going.
Guidelines for
Rekindling & Protecting Your Postpartum Digestive Fire
·
To rekindle the digestive fire: About 10 minutes before meals take
2 spoons of grated fresh ginger with a splash of lime juice &
a pinch of salt - if that's too complex just eat a slice of peeled
fresh ginger. This will wake up your digestive enzymes naturally
and get them into a rhythm.
·
If you have absorption problems, immediately follow your meal with
takram-this is 2 tablespoons of live culture, unsweetened
yogurt churned in a cup of water with 1 tsp of ground cumin.
·
Drinking Cumin Coriander Fennel tea is another digestive help. It
burns body toxins, kindles digestion, and helps any gas move out.
This tea helps your body self regulate its hormones and helps promote
milk production as well! Mix equal parts of Cumin, Coriander &
Fennel seeds. Use 1 tsp per cup tea. Simmer 10 minutes, strain
& drink.
·
Although baby & sleep may be unpredictable, try to eat at regular
times, this way your body can anticipate meal times by starting
its digestive juices going at the usual time.
·
Eat your largest meal between 10 am and 2 pm when the digestive
fire is normally at its peak.
·
Don't overeat at a given meal. Overeating smothers the digestive
fire, just as putting too much wood on a fire will eventually put
it out. One guideline for how much to eat is to cup both of your
hands in front of you. The amount you can hold in your hands is
about how much your stomach can hold and do its job well.
·
Eat food at room temperature or a little warmer. Eating with your
fingers will make sure it is the right temperature. Test your tea
with your little finger. (Cancer of the esophagus can be triggered
by habitually eating foods too hot.) Digestive enzymes are temperature
specific and evolved to work with room temperature food-not refrigerated
, frozen or iced.
- Allow 3 hours between solid
food meals to allow digestion to be complete before new food
is added to the system. Fruit digests faster when taken alone
as a snack , so you can eat other food about 11/2 hours after
fruit.
- Don't drink with meals.
½ hour before or 2 hrs after. This avoids diluting your digestive
juices, which would reduce their working capacity. Have soupy
foods at meal time to avoid too much dryness instead of drinking.
- Chew food mindfully. Poorly
chewed food may cause choking and, more likely, poor digestion.
The mouth is the first step of digestion-chewing well mixes
the enzymes in saliva thoroughly with your food to begin the
breakdown necessary for full digestion. Eating slowly &
mindfully increased digestion.
- Use proper food combining
as a rule. Occasional lapses may not be problematical, but
daily or regular lapses will lead to serious toxic build up
& the possibility of serious disease in the long run.
No fruits eaten with other types of foods
Melons always eaten alone
Milk always taken alone except for totally sweet fruit ie. Dates,
mangoes, figs
or cooked with basmati rice
Don't mix milk with dal, fish, or meat-this is definitely a dangerous
combination.
Don't take yogurt in a meal with meat.
- Relax to allow for proper
digestion. Talking lots, reading and other "head" activities
can confuse your prana or life energy flow as to which way to
flow and are bad for digestion. Avoid jumping up & down
from the table or watching tv. The Ayurvedic ideal is to not
talk while eating. If that doesn't work-avoid emotionally upsetting
topics & topics you don't want to take deeply into your
body. Make food a sacrifice to the digestive fire, offered to
God. Saying a prayer or sitting quietly for a minute or two
before eating will allow you to slow down and let energy &
blood go to digestive tract.
- Subtle qualities of food
can become more important in the sensitive postpartum period.
Fresh foods bring vital energy -avoid leftovers longer than
24 hours old; food cooked by people when unhappy; and processed
food which has lost most vital energy. A pleasant g atmosphere
& appearance of food will make for better digestion-you'll
feel more like taking it in.
- Don't eat & then sleep-leave
2 hrs between them. Digestion works better in an awake state.
- Don't eat & then exercise,
except for taking 1000 steps after a meal-2 hrs between them.
- Don't eat & then meditate
-leave 1 hour between to avoid poor meditation or bad digestion.
- Follow the diet appropriate
for your constitution &/or current condition, as well as
the season. For most postpartum women a Vata reducing diet
is appropriate. ( see suggested Vata diet modified for postpartum
women)
For the baby,
leaving the contained and watery womb to go into the spacious, airy,
stimulating, and relatively dry world also means a big increase
in Vata dosha. So during this time Vata reduction is the basic
care plan. So by keeping warm, daily oil massaging & warm bath,
keeping the baby's head covered with a little hat and sesame oil
on the fontanelles, these all help offset Vata becoming too high
in this period of time. Avoiding cold drafts is especially important.
If the mother
avoids Vata imbalance, drinks sufficient fluids, and eats a healthy
diet her milk will also be balanced-imbalanced moms make imbalanced
milk that can effect the baby. More fluids may be needed at this
time due to the Vata influence.
Babies generally
digest the breast milk in about 2 hours, so constantly feeding the
baby may end up depressing the digestive fire of the baby and cause
digestive disturbances. Also, babies may be sensitive to some foods
the mother may be eating. If the mother drinks Cumin Coriander
Fennel Tea regularly it will help the baby's digestion as well as
help move out any gas that may form before it becomes a tummy ache.
If the baby is
having mucus problems it is often due to the mother eating too much
cold food or Kapha (mucus) increasing food. However, don't cut
out ALL of the Kapha foods because they are necessary for formation
of the plasma which in turn forms the breast milk. Since this may
be a delicate balance, take some fresh ginger tea as soon as there
are signs of excess mucus beginning to show up in mother or baby.
(Several cups of day would be needed in this case - otherwise use
it as a general digestive once or twice a day.) As illustrated by
the above examples, in general newborn babies are treated by giving
the herbs to the mother.
By a couple of
weeks postpartum it's possible to have a good idea of what the constitution
of the baby is by how she/he looks and acts. Through this one can
cultivate a suitable environment to nurture the type of personality
the baby tends to have. Children in general are in the Kapha stage
of life-when things are forming and are more dense. This is one
reason for children having lots of mucus compared to adults.
Vata baby: Thinner,
long fingers, easily distracted, when emotionally imbalanced:
overwhelm
Needs
a strong rhythm to lifestyle, calm, avoiding overstimulation, teaching
how to be grounded.
Pitta baby: Medium,
tends to be fair skinned, light thin hair or almost none, sensitive
skin, wants stimulation, more focused, gets frustrated, when emotionally
imbalanced: anger
Needs
developmentally appropriate challenges, teaching how to relax and
wind down
Kapha
baby: Rounder larger, very deep "inny" belly button, calmer personality
when emotionally imbalanced: clinging
Needs
stimulation, teaching how to be motivated
Remember-most
of us are combinations of Vata, Pitta and Kapha rather than just
one pure type, so go with what seems most predominant.
By
taking the advice and support of Ayurveda during the postpartum,
mothers and babies will be setting the stage for a happier,
longer, and healthier lives.
Terra Richardson
practiced homebirth midwifery 13 years in Boulder, CO before retiring
to focus on Wise Womanhood, offering classes and a holistic healing
practice using ayurveda, flower essences, & Reiki energy healing.
She coauthored Pregnant Feelings with Rahima Baldwin Dancy
and wrote soon to be published, Giving Birth to Ourselves-Contemplations
for Midwives & Other Birth Companions. You can learn more
about her classes & practice at http://www.wisewomanhood.com or by calling
720.628.5015.
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